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Love your Neighbor – Hospitality is key Part 2

How did you remind yourself last week of the goodness of God? It so important like I said in the video last week. Make this a daily theme in your life to remind yourself of Gods goodness!!

Love your neighbor –Hospitality is the key part 2This week we want to write about how hospitality can create a safe place for people to be open. Many times in our today’s society we talk bad about other people if they are not around. Proverbs 11.13 says that a gossip betrays a confidence but a trustworthy person keeps a secret. When you host dinners or brunches or other events at your home, make sure to stir the conversation away from the gossip of others. It might be hard first and feel awkward, but it then creates a safe place. People see your heart and see that you don’t talk bad about others so if they want to share something with you, they can because you won’t slander them either. So you created a safe place for everyone to be open and real. And that is true for yourself as well. You now have the opportunity to share as well because you also feel safe.

Remember the story of Zacchaeus we talked about 2 weeks ago?  Jesus came to his house and he made dinner. But the crowds outside started to gossip about Jesus why he would spend time with someone like Zacchaeus. But Jesus went to spend dinner with him anyway. Because Jesus did that and didn’t let his heart be stirred by the gossip, Zacchaeus totally changed his heart and through that probably the lives of many people he returned money too. Imagine someone ripped you off and comes back to you asks for forgiveness and gives you back more than he took, that might make you wonder about the heart change of that person.  So safe places can really change the lives of not just you but many people in your surroundings!

  1. Start this week to check yourself and see if you gossip about others and if you do ask God for forgiveness and change.
  2. Stir conversations away from Gossip. Instead of going along with gossip say something positive about the person that’s talked about.

Hey our friend

How was your week? 4th of July is soon on us and with that another neighbor barbecue in our apartment. We are so excited!! Last week was a good week too. We had meeting with a good friend about some details for the website. Its such a blessing to have friends that are specialists in their fields.  We also had a wonderful neighbor brunch. As always it was a great time to connect! Being friends with the people right around you is such a blessing and it gives all of us community we long for!!

Remember this week the 2 questions that we posted!!

Have a blessed week

Markus and Jen

Love your Neighbor – Hospitality can help to choose the truths!

love your neighbor Hospitality can help to choose the truthsLast week we talked about hospitality and challenged you to invite a neighbor over for dinner. How did it go?

This weeks blog is an important one on loving your neighbor and hospitality. Its about a belief that you have and how it can affect the way you show the love of God to your neighbors. Enjoy the video!

Hey our friend

20170622_205036How was your week? Hopefully filled with sun and wonderful times with Father God!! This week we celebrated the graduation of our winter DTS. It was so wonderful to hear their stories how they changed lives on their outreach to refugee camps in Greece and homes for refugees in Italy. Its amazing how you can show the love of God just by showing up. We were also blessed by all the work they did in North Beach during the first 3 month of the school. They were truly a blessing. Please pray for them as they move into their next steps God is calling them to.

We also had great week here in north beach. The book writing is moving forward which is awesome. Its not as fast as on the book writing trip, but words start to fill up more pages which is great!!

Don’t forget this week to remember the goodness of God.

Have a blessed week. We love you!

Markus and Jen

Love your Neighbor – Hospitality is key Part 1

Love your neighbor –Hospitality is the keyLast week we talked about hindrances. Were you able to address some in your life and then to start overcome them. It’s a process and it takes time but it’s worthied!!

This week and the next few weeks we want to talk about hospitality and the importance of it. So when we moved to our apartment one thing that was important for us was to get to know our neighbors. We started it off with a big birthday party to which about 40 people came. Our place was so full, but everyone had a great time and connected with each other. With that event we meet a lot of people which then after we invited over for dinner, because we really wanted to get to know them better. At the beginning we were worried that our place was too small or our food not fancy enough, but the reality was different. All people that came over felt blessed and were encouraged that we invited them. it didn’t matter that our place was small or our food was not like Michelin Star Grade, what mattered was that we had an open and inviting home. Out of all the hospitality we did over the years many wonderful friendships were formed by which we are really blessed.

I also get reminded of the story of Zacchaeus (Luke 19.1-10) when Jesus asks him to come over to his house for dinner and how he instantly invited him in. There was no time for much preparation or doing big things. No, he just opened his home and was blessed. What about if Jesus wants to bless you through your neighbors and bless them through you just by opening your house for hospitality? Would it not be awesome to host a dinner and get a lifelong friendship out of it?

We want to challenge you to invite one of your neighbors over this week for dinner! You can do it!!!

Hey our friend

We hope you are doing really great!! Jen and I feel honored to know that you read our blog and hopefully it inspires and encourages you! Our week here in San Francisco was great. We hosted a game night at our house which was a blast. Often we don’t even get to play games and just end up socializing with each other. Our prayer is that every person that comes will feel the love of God through us and leave encouraged and hopeful. Often we see people leaving more hopeful.

Keep praying this week for your neighbors that they see hope and pray for your dinner that God will really encourage you and your neighbors through it!!

Have a blessed week

Markus and Jen

Love your Neighbor – A few thoughts on hindrances

Love your neighbor a few thoughts on hindrancesWere you able to find a local meeting spot in your community? We hope you did and now make sure to frequent it regularly!

So we have been writing and talking about how to love your neighbor for the last 5 month. Today I want to look back at one of the first things we talked about, Hindrances. We recently taught a class at our church on loving your neighbor and in the first class we talked about hindrances and it gave us a great insight into some of them. Here are some that might face you as well:

  1. Work Schedule my hours are odd and different than the ones of other people
  2. Don’t have time for something extra
  3. Do I live my own life the way Jesus called me to
  4. I have my own interests I want to focus on
  5. Fear of rejection what if neighbors don’t want to be friends with me
  6. Personality type – I’m an introvert, I’m more task focused and it’s harder to be relational

These are all hindrances that can face the most of us and they are true reasons. But all hindrances can be overcome if we pray, brainstorm and have God help us. Let us go through them one by one:

  1. What we noticed with that is that even odd hours are hours where you can connect with people. As an example, if you have the night shift at work starting 11 till 7 you go to sleep after that for 8 hours wake up and it gives you the opportunity to have a neighbor over for a coffee. For you, it would be breakfast coffee for them an afternoon coffee time. So hindrance can be overcome with creative thinking
  2. That is a problem in today’s society. Instead of having more time we fill our schedules way too much. One way to change that is by prioritizing. What about if you plan a few things less and open up a time to connect. Loving your neighbor is one of the greatest commandments Jesus has given us and it it’s important that we make it a priority
  3. This actually could be a challenge for all of us. If we don’t live our life the way Jesus called us to this might be a good way to change that. Let us make lifestyle decisions we think Jesus would make. And you don’t have to be perfect to love your neighbor; we just have to work on our issues.
  4. Yes, I agree all of us have interests we want to do. But what about you get to know your neighbor and you might be surprised that some of them might have the same interest. You could truly find a new friend through that and your interests can be enriched!
  5. Yes, that is a very true fear we probably all had since our school days. What if people don’t like us and don’t want to be friends with us. You know many people didn’t like Jesus but he still chooses to love them. And maybe you remind them of someone they had a bad experience with, but God can redeem that through you truly loving them.
  6. Personality type is a big one, but it doesn’t have to be a hindrance. If you are an introvert make sure you get your alone time in every week but then also introverts need people maybe just in smaller doses so maybe have a small dinner with 2 of your neighbors. If you are more of a task-focused person you still need relationships. Sometimes we have to learn the skill to connect with people in a relational way without a task. And it is all possible.

So these are some of the hindrances and we gave you some ideas to overcome them. But the main thing to remember, one thing Jesus said in Mark 9.23 and what inspired Elvis Presley to write on his memorial side:

“All things are possible for one who believes!”

Hey our friend

Did your summer weather start yet? Did you roll out the barbecue for some good hot dogs and great conversations with neighbors? Grilling is one of my favorites and Jen and I look forward to this coming season where we can do that more often! Our wonderful neighborhood is doing well too. We love all of our neighbor friends which are a true blessing. We pray that God will give you such a love for your neighbors and you become friends like we are!

So let us all move forward this week in overcoming hindrances and let us love our neighbors!

Have a blessed week

Markus and Jen

Love your Neighbor – Find a local meeting spot

Love your neighbor find a local meeting spotValuing the one is such an important thing and it shows people a greater value. I hope you were able to see that through last weeks challenge!

This weeks blog is about local meetings spots in your neighborhood. It’s important that we find those because in those we are able to connect with others from our area. And sometimes it’s good to have an outside meeting spot from home.

Hey our friend

How was your week? We had a wonderful barbecue at our house for Memorial Day. It was a wonderful time connecting with our neighbor friends. We love them! We also had a community night at YWAM this week which was a blessing. Its great to see many Christians from the city come together and be challenged and encouraged.

So find this week your meeting spot and regularly go there!!

Have a blessed week

Markus and Jen