Carl is an older man who lived in one of the many apartment buildings in North beach for 40 years. He moved to the city to pursue his career. By doing that he also cut off most of his old relationships since they lived far away. Over the years success came and his business took off, but it also took a toll on his relationships. He was not able to build any friendships since his whole life was consumed by work. The only ones he knew was people from the bar he frequently visited. But then a sickness came, which bound him to his apartment. With that a loneliness and isolation sneaked into his life which took more and more over. When he read an add we put on craigslist about meeting up and finding friends, he was the one who came to the coffee shop and connected with us. Out of that a wonderful friendship was established.

This is just one story of a person that was caught in loneliness and isolation. Recently a friend tagged me on Facebook with an article which I read and it talked about Canada and how they started calling loneliness and isolation an epidemic since it affected 6 million people (if you want to read the article click on this link). But what can be the cure for that? The cure lays in each one of us. Either way we need to be a community for people or we need to find a community to fit in. Both take an action.

When you look at the story above you see how the man reached out and took a step towards finding a community. So if you are struggling with having a community or friends you have to take a step. Yes I understand it can be scary and nerve wracking, but it is so worthied. It will transform your life. Yes you might run into people that might not become friends and might be mean, but you will also run into wonderful people that become friends for life. Start to go up to people and talk to them. Host a game night or some other event at your house and invite neighbors.

And for the ones who don’t feel lonely or isolated be a family to people around you. Meet your neighbors and love on them. Invite them into your home and invest in a friendship with them. In Psalm 68.6 it says: God places the lonely into families. But who are the families? We are the families, so lets be open for the people, lets have our hearts open for neighbors and for the community to come in.

The cure is there, but the change can only come if each one of us starts to do their part!

If you want to know how to start read our Blog series Love your neighbor by clicking on this link. You can always go to the next one by clicking on the bottom of each blog on the link for the next one.

Hey our friend

Summer arrived in San Francisco and with that I mean winter temperatures! Jen already pulled out her winter sweater! Monday we still had great weather for our 4^th of July barbecue. It was a lot of fun and our apartment was packed to the max with 16 neighbors and friends from the coffee shop. Each one had a part in it through contributing food or something to drink. It was awesome. Then I was able to meet with a Pastor about what we do and how he can encourage his convergation to invest in their community and become friends with their neighbors. Its awesome how God opens more and more doors in this season. Please stand with us in Prayer for a friend from the neighborhood who faces eviction from his apartment. He is 81 years old and it will be a challenge for him to find a new place, but pray for Gods favor for him to find an apartment that he can afford (the average one bedroom goes for 3500 dollars and studios are on average 2500 dollars).

Remember you have the cure in your hands to fight loneliness and isolation now its up to you to use it!!

Have a great week!

Markus and Jen